April showers, May flowers... and birdsong. During the Village Poets reading at the La Crescenta Library, my fellow poets formed a chorus of birds, using children's toys from Poland - little bird sculptures that are half-filled with water and whistle like birds. These poetic birds provided a background and refrains to my poem, inspired by Susan Dobay's painting, "Musicscape 12" - the same painting was also featured at the "Co-Inspirators" reading at Pasadena Public Library, organized by Rey R. Luminarias.
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| Reading with Musicscape 12, Scenic Drive Gallery in Monrovia, 2012 |
See, how we dance?
~ inspired by Susan Dobay's "Musicscape 12"
Simon says – “grow”
and our roots reach for water
our branches for the sun
Simon says – “blossom”
and our pink petals open
in a gold mist of newness
Simon says – “sing”
and we let the breeze whisper
with hummingbirds, jewels, leaves
Simon says – “fly”
and we turn and turn again
in swirling clouds, voiceless music, dancing
This poem is published in Poets on Site's anthology, "On Awakening" edited by Kathabela Wilson (Pasadena, 2012), and on display at the LitFest on May 11, 2013 (10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Pasadena’s Central Park. 275 South Raymond Avenue). For schedule. http://litfestpasadena.org/ The LitFest will feature panels, readings, performances... You will meet Kathabela and Poets on Site. You will be able to paint a poem on Just Kibbe's car...
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| At the Pasadena LitFest 2012 with Kathabela Wilson |
The month of May, honored by so many poets as the month of love and romance, is not considered a good month to be married in. Apparently, the romance of May is short-lived; for the marriage to survive you have to tie the knot in June or September!
While reading an exceedingly bizarre treatise by a 19th century Swedish mystic, Swedenborg, I was struck by his vision of Heaven in which eight-limbed creatures float by; these creatures consist of couples that found their perfect match and are blended into one being while the ones that are still single frantically search for their better half. How far do you have to go to find an ideal person to share your life with?
Sometimes very far, sometimes you’ll meet that person in high school or earlier. The partners in one of the best marriages I know met in seventh grade Another happily married octogenarian admitted that every day she feels a flush of joy when she hears the key turning in the lock when her husband comes home. Her friends who long ago stopped talking to their husbands and are now living in a marriage of “suspended animation” or a “permanent truce” laugh at her “silly infatuation,” but, she says, it took years of hard work to get there. Someone else said that the secret to a happy marriage is “compromise” – how distant from romantic love! How close to the “arranged marriage” of so many cultures!
Arranged or not, each culture has different wedding customs. For instance, in China, the bride’s traditional shoes, veil and other wedding clothes and symbols were red (red is also used in India). There even was a special calligraphy symbol of “Double Happiness” that decorated wedding gifts, to bring joy and happiness to the newly-wed couple. What would happen if you leave that tradition behind?
During her trip to China, Hungarian American artist Susan Dobay saw a bewildered looking Chinese bride in a white, Western-style dress and used the picture in her artwork, called Bride on the Rock. This image gave rise to my poem and here it is…
Vision, Unveiled
“Why are you leaving us?”
Chinese characters dissipate in the air
Clouds descend
Down the waterfall of jade
Clouds float down
The slopes of aquamarine
“Where are you going?
Why are you doing this?”
Centuries of crystal
Petrified traditions stand silent
Watching over
The white tulle of a Cinderella dress
The dark-haired bride
Is anxious without her talisman
Lost without the red hue
Of prosperity, crimson joy she hides
The sign of double happiness
Marked in blood-red ink
Under the pristine silk
Of her bridal gown
They cannot see – she listens
To the whisper of the crevices
Her veil flutters
On the breeze
© 2013 by Maja Trochimczyk
Since the path of the bride took her away from her roots in Chinese tradition, I decided to add a poem about a young girl who went in the opposite direction – towards the wisdom of her ancestors, symbolized by learning to count in Chinese. It is important to find a balance between staying connected to tradition, and making a new place for yourself in the world. Sometimes it takes a lifetime…just like a good marriage.
A Skipping Lesson
One Two Three
En Deux Troix
Ein Zwei Drei
she learned to count
like the foreigners
do
she skips up the steps
and stops at the top
attentive
she listens to stories
of her ancestors
deep within
her veins
Yee Uhr Sahn
Suh Woo Lyo
blood circling
from her heart
to her breath
tomorrow
she'll learn to count
all the bright red hats
on the way through
the city
in Chinese
Yee Uhr Sahn
Suh Woo Lyo
Chee Bah Jyo
Shi
(c) 2013 by Maja Trochimczyk
“A Skipping Lesson” was published in Quill and Parchment, March 2013.
The three stages of life - childhood, adulthood, maturity receive different degrees of attention in Western society. Our gaze stops at the peak, the bride at the summit, the young man at the top of his prowess. We look in fondness at children, give too much attention to adolescence as a distinct and different stage in life (replete with its own, highly commercialized culture), and tend to devalue the wisdom of age. "What creature walks on four legs, then on two, then on three?" Asked the Sphinx? The answer - a human being, crawling, walking and shuffling along with a cane...
A friend of mine, in her mid sixties, complained with exasperation how she hates being patronized by people in public spaces, ignored, disrespected, belittled, like a child. "And hare we today, dearie..." "Aren't we flustered..." She's talked down to by silly teenagers, shop attendants, nurses, as if she were already senile, useless... In China, the ancestors are revered, Confucianism places a premium on proper respect and obedience to the elders. The wisdom of the elders is also recognized in Native American traditions. Tbe women's wisdom is the key to survival, endurance, no matter what. Sometimes very hard, sometimes it is the only way.
My third poem from the "Women's Trilogy inspired by Susan Dobay" deals with the wisdom that old women share with the youngsters. If you learn, you will survive, if not, you will become a forgotten part of history, that little corner that someone might once discover, for it was not written by victors and is of little import on the public stage. This poem is published in the current issue of The Statement Magazine, a literary journal of California State University at Los Angeles. Come to the publication party on May 16, 2013 at 6:30 p.m. in the Golden Eagle Ballroom of CSULA.
... Too Bold
The ancestors’ weight heavy on their shoulders
The ages’ wisdom embroidered on their skin
Bend down, bend down
You will not be broken
Tall stems of rice bow low before the wind
Slide through the onslaught, a sudden surge of war
Young mothers whisper silence to their daughters
Girls watch, repeat the gestures of their kin
Bend down, bend down
You will not be broken
You have to learn the art of disappearing
Invisible, you will outlive the strangest times
Be still, be patient, breathe the longest hours
You have to do it all and remain unseen
Women alone survived in our village
Into the river silver tears have flown
Bend down, bend down
You will not be broken
Bend down, bend down
You will not…
© 2013 by Maja Trochimczyk
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Wow!!!
ReplyDeleteI always appreciated and loved your poems,
which have deep meanings, rhythm and music in it, but now through your writings I am meeting a philosopher and learning from you at my "Bend down, bend down" age. I will not be broken because I have friends "spiritual sisters" like you Maja.
Thank you for giving me a wonderful time with your poems and writings.
I am looking forward to an exhibit of your photography and poetry at the Scenic Drive Gallery.